Dark Lamb

tenderbuttons:

“during your years as a single woman you will find, through no effort on your part, that you have become ‘the girl’ in a man’s life… being ‘the girl’ doesn’t necessarily mean you are sleeping with him, although you may be.  you could be the love of his life whom he didn’t marry fifteen years ago or a girl he sees but barely knows.  he can have other flesh-and-blood girls at the same time.  you are simply the girl he dreams of when his mind takes light from his real-life situation.  you are his girl…” -helen gurley brown

she goes on to write that you should make a list of “your men” and breaks it down into “the eligibles,” “the eligibles-but-who-needs-them,” “the don juans,” “the married men,” “the homosexuals,” “the divorcing men,” and “the younger men.”  i think she’s basically a genius.

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hm. interesting.